Thrillable Hours: Naomi Duguid, Award-Winning Cookbook Author

Categories Food, Long-Term Travel, Thrillable Hours

Welcome to the first Thrillable Hours interview on Legal Nomads! As promised in yesterday’s introduction, my first Q&A is with award-winning cookbook author, author, photographer and traveler Naomi Duguid. Qualifying her for the series, she is also a former lawyer, one who practiced for many years in Toronto before leaving her firm to pursue a wholeheartedly different lifestyle. I had the pleasure of sitting with Naomi in Chiang Mai and asking her these questions face-to-face, transcribing them as she responded. I’m sure you will agree that her interview is incredibly inspirational.

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What made you decide to follow a less conventional path than typical law school graduates? Was there a particular moment that catalyzed the decision for you?

I went to law school for political reasons, because I had worked with community groups relating to poverty and public housing, and I thought, “I have the time. I can do this. I can be more effective if I go to law school.” In the end, I realized that I wanted to do labour law and that’s where I ended up. And I really liked it; I loved the people I worked with and the clients. Then, years later, I was supposed to join the partnership and despite being completely committed (they were like my family), I asked for a leave of absence. Something in me balked at the idea of partnership and I wanted an unpaid leave of absence. And this was 1985, when these things just didn’t happen – but the firm was very progressive.

Three weeks into it, I was in China, and I found myself in tears one day and I realized “I guess I’m not going back.” I feel guilty that it took me half way around the globe to realize this, but I suppose I knew something wasn’t right because I asked for the leave in the first place. It wasn’t a pushed out feeling, it was a pulled-in-by-the rest-of-the-world feeling. I thought, “if I only have one life, I want to raise my eyes to the horizons”. I didn’t want to have a situation where I was in my job and wishing it was over so that I can move onto the next thing. It wasn’t the live I wanted to lead.

Woman carrying fresh produce in Guizhou
Woman carrying fresh produce in Guizhou. Photo by Naomi Duguid.

On that same trip to China I met a remarkable traveler in a dormitory in Kunming. We ended up sharing a 24 hour train ride to Chengdu. She looked like she was in her 60s, but was actually 82 and from Switzerland. She turned to me and asked if I knew the book Forbidden Journey and I said that I had wondered what happened to the author after the book’s story ended. [Note: the book tells the incredible, first person story of a woman's journey from Peking to Kashmir in the 1930s.] And she said “I’m Ella Maillart” [the author]. We talked on the train and we barely slept – basically this was one long conversation. When I told her I had decided to quit my job she told me that I have to follow my compass, follow my nose and figure out how to make a living from it.

And it was one of those wonderful things, to have met her. It was affirming and very encouraging to me. The world is out there and it’s up to us to meet it in the way we choose. And I was lucky enough to have choices. I was free to choose. So I wrote to the partners and declined the partnership.  I still have friends in that firm, and I have glimpses of that law firm world but I get to be a beginner in this wider world. And that’s an incredible thing.

What do you find most fulfilling about your current job as a cookbook author and photographer?

On that first trip to China and Tibet, I met the man who would become my husband and we focused on food and agriculture and how people live. My undergraduate degree is in geography, so it makes sense that seeking explanations and trying to understand people in their own context is something I am passionate about. And that’s really what it is about for me. It’s not about the best meal I ever ate, or if Burmese food better than Thai food. That’s an outsider’s point of view. I want to become enough of an insider and have enough of a perspective that I can transmit it to others to have them put on an ‘insider’s hat’, even in a small, bridging way. And it might be arrogant to say that, but why not try?

That’s what my books are about: trying to be that bridge. Some people connect through images, some people connect via a story or facts or analysis. And others by doing, by the sensual. Recipes are this extraordinary thing – they do all of this, they anchor food in a concrete way. You can travel in your kitchen; you can take this risk at home. I’ve had people photocopy pages from my book Hot Sour Salty Sweet (below) and take it with them to Thailand. That’s pretty exciting!

So it’s not about food as product, it’s about culture as expressed by food. It’s saying “food can be your way in” and if people choose to take it, it’s there for them.

Hot Sour Salty Sweet Naomi Duguid
Naomi’s award-winning cookbook, Hot Sour Salty Sweet: A Culinary Journey Through Southeast Asia.

Do you have any advice for professionals who are interested in leaving private practice but concerned about what is out there?

Yes. I went to my 25th reunion for law school and I was invited to be a speaker at the dinner, which was very nice. In the course of the cocktail and the dinner at this reunion, I was asked by 3 different men (my class was mostly men) “How do I get out of this. Tell me how I get out of this.” Separate conversations, with people I did not know well. And I said the same thing to each of them: the first thing is to lower your costs. They’re about 50 years old now, these men, and each of them said “I don’t see how.”  But that’s the first thing: you need to lower costs, and to remember that you’re going to be a beginner at the next thing you do. Hopefully it’ll be continuous with another interest you’ve had, so that you’re somewhere with it, but you need to accept that it will be a non-status situation. You say you’re a lawyer for years, and then you have nothing to say when people ask what you do.

So the second thing is to figure out what you’re going to say when people ask what you do.  ”I’m working on a few different projects right now” or “I’ve got a few pans in the oven, we’ll see what comes out.” Whatever you say, don’t get into your doubts and fears. Prepare something to say. And if you can do those two things, then you can do it all.

Naomi Duguid tomato on the grill

How did your legal education inform the way you see the world today? Do you still identify yourself as a lawyer?

I would say it wasn’t my legal education, but my practice – in all senses. I have a larger sense of responsibility for others, and I’m a fixer – I tend to try and find solutions. Political, technical, whatever it takes! I still have a sense of responsibility to make things right, or make them work. And the breadth of clients that I had gave me an appreciation for the fact that we all have and aspire to dignity and being treated with respect. How I see the world was clarified in my [legal] practice, that everyone has the right to be judged or appreciated within their own context and it’s not up to me to sit in judgment on them. Listening and seeing, those are holdovers and they are very important to my every day life.

What do you have to say to those who tell me lawyers can’t have fun?

I think it’s really hard to have fun when there’s a pressure of responsibility and a standardization of expectations – it’s a weight. It’s a load. So if you lift that off, lawyers can actually re-inflate and get lighter on their feet. The question is, can you get lighter on your feet and in practice? I know some people who do. But mostly, it’s easier for lawyers to have fun when they stop practicing.

What do you see for yourself during the next five years?

More of the same. More of keeping an energetic curiosity about the world, and trusting to serendipity and the goodwill of others to ease my passage.

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Naomi Duguid


Naomi splits her time between Toronto and Chiang Mai and is in the process of finishing up her next cookbook (which I am very much looking forward to reading!) about Burmese food and culture. You can stay updated about her adventures and culinary discoveries via her site, Immerse Through, her blog or her Facebook fan page.

 

I’ll be sending out similar questions to each Thrillable Hours interviewee, but if you have any other questions, please leave them in the comments.

-Jodi

22 comments to Thrillable Hours: Naomi Duguid, Award-Winning Cookbook Author

  1. What a fantastic first Thrillable Hours post! Those points about lowering your costs and having many projects up in the air are SO true. Those golden handcuffs keep people chained to doing things they would otherwise not do and I am so heartened to hear folks spreading this message.

  2. “remember that you’re going to be a beginner at the next thing you do.”

    I’m sure that’s a stumbling block not just for lawyers, but for everyone who chooses to make an abrupt change after years of working a certain profession. You have to accept that the juice is worth the squeeze!

    • I think that’s very true, and as Naomi said choosing to pursue a hobby you already feel passionate about (but on a full time basis) definitely goes a long way toward easing that process.

  3. I’m super pumped your series has started. Not only is is great reading, but inspirational as well. I just sent it on to my close friend who is a career services officer at UBC law and she may feature your blog at her panel next week on “What to do with a law degree” featuring: an organic farmer, the owner of Steamworks, a CBC producer, a CA/lawyer who now does consulting for the gov’t on P3s, and an immigration lawyer who is happily balancing work, wifehood and motherhood!

    • That’s great Allison – thanks for the referral. There’s no shortage of us former or current lawyers doing something a little different! Is the panel part of the law faculty or UBC as a whole?

  4. Oh, and I’ve added Naomi to my list of heros. I’ve bought several copies of Hot, Sour, Salty, Sweet cookbook for birthdays, Christmas, and showers, but I wasn’t previously aware of her story! I can’t imagine the kind of looks she got in the 80s when she packed up and went to China. Amazing.

  5. Excellent 1st interview for the Thrillable Hours series, Jodi! Esp. nice to see a fellow “seasoned” traveler showcased.

    Indeed, Naomi’s advice to those lawyer lads at her reunion (“…lower your costs, lower your costs, lower your costs…”) has long been my life-mantra as well (albeit in slightly different words: “Keep your overhead LOW!”). Though not law school, I too grabbed a couple of degrees and was raking in a goodly gob of $$$, but… I ditched all that to start my own adventure travel company at 40. By ever keeping my overhead low, I’ve been happily roaming the globe ever since.

    • Thanks for the comment Dyanne. I think it’s hard for someone living a life that requires a certain (higher) amount of income to picture a life with a lot less of it – as Naomi said, the men she spoke to at her reunion flatly refused to take that first step. I don’t begrudge those who want to live a life in private practice – we’re all different, after all – but to those who want to get away it’s imperative to understand you need to cut your costs down and also that doing so won’t ruin your life as much as you think it will ;)

      Kudos to you for having taken a risk and followed your passions & best of luck!

  6. “Whatever you say, don’t get into your doubts and fears” – this is a hidden nugget within the post. Numerous times I’ve been told I’m a bit wishy-washy when I meet new people and talk about what I do, in the travel direction my life has taken. Goal for the month is to assert my projects as without the self-judgement int there!

    Inspiring interview and so intriguing to see how Naomi focused on what she wanted from her life and set her own path, even when she wasn’t sure what that meant, and the universe opened up and provided a platform for her to inspire.

    What a wonderful start to your series and looking forward more inspiring legal nomads!

  7. I relate to Naomi’s journey. She had to leave the comfortable confines of her life to realize what made her heart sing. That takes guts, courage and deep insight. It can be doubly hard to walk away from what many consider a reputable career. She shows the value in meaningful work.

    Great interview Jodi!

  8. Very interesting read with lots of nuggets of insight. So many lawyers are unhappy, but more so than many others, they are also the ones that have the power to extricate themselves from the situation.

    Looking forward to the next interview…

  9. “It wasn’t a pushed out feeling, it was a pulled-in-by-the rest-of-the-world feeling….”

    That’s exactly the sentiment I feel. Great interview! Very inspiring…

    On a side note: I might’ve mentioned this before but Jack’s family is a family of lawyers (public defenders) and his dad just recently retired and finally started enjoying life. I think he’d appreciate this series of interviews. I’ll email this to him.

    • Thanks for sharing the post Jill, and I’m glad you enjoyed it. I was very inspired by Naomi’s story and I’m glad to see everyone else is as well. Takes a lot of guts to leave private practice at a time where RTW travel was nowhere near as common as it is now.

  10. What a great first interview! A very inspiring story about leaving one’s job to travel – probably one of the best stories I ever read on this. Naomi took a career break when that term didn’t exist and ended up discovering herself in the process. It has to be a tough transition to make that change and take that step but Naomi shows that it is about following your heart and who you are more than what you get paid to do. I can relate to that.

  11. A brilliant start to a series!

    As a law student who has one year of study left – but after a 1 month internship with a major commercial law firm I realised I have no desire to practice law whatsoever – I am now travelling and seeing where life takes me.

  12. I loved Hot Sour Salty Sweet! I had no idea Naomi Duguid was a lawyer…thanks for another great read :)

  13. I love the way she discusses the notion of books and photographs as “the bridge.” As I mentioned before, I am really glad you are hosting this series, Jodi and I am greatly looking forward to the rest of the posts.

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