When I quit my job as a corporate lawyer in 2008, I thought that I was taking a one year sabbatical to travel around the world. I never expected that this website, something I started as a blog to keep my family and friends updated about where I was going, would turn into a bigger project—and eventually a new career.
My income sources were not ads or sponsored content here on the site, but products or services that my readers said they wanted, like celiac translation cards for restaurants, or hand-drawn maps of food and local “food walks” to accompany them. With the exception of freelancing or public speaking opportunities I took on, I created income streams that were uncoupled from my day to day life, which allowed me to keep eating the world.
In 2017, a routine medical procedure left me disabled with a chronic spinal CSF leak. Sadly, that meant my alternative career in travel and food writing necessarily came to a halt. But the benefit of my business model paid off: I was able to shift focus and write more about chronic illness here on the site, and on social media, and have been able to help raise awareness for my condition via freelance pieces in the process. The celiac cards and maps continued on, and I also started a Patreon monthly membership where readers could support me since I cannot work like I used to because of the ongoing spinal CSF leak.
The journey of BigLaw to soup eater was one many people asked about during my decade of nomadic living. So much so that midway through, I created a “life after law” series to provide case studies for lawyers or law students who wanted something a little less conventional than private practice. I called the series Thrillable Hours— a play on billable hours, which I found hilarious. (Non-lawyers didn’t seem to find it funny, though!)
In that series, I asked the same 5 questions to each former attorney to ask them how they saw the world today. The interview also focused on advice for for people seeking to leave the law. Where should they begin? How to navigate that kind of change? These interviews are at the bottom of the page, and have been a great source of advice for lawyers and students alike.
As Legal Nomads grew, I received more and more emails from lawyers and law students confused about what options existed for them with their background. Some were miserable, some were bored, others were just curious. My own leap into a much less structured career was one that fellow lawyers wanted to emulate or evolve from, and I built this resource page to help lawyers look for alternative careers, or reframe their education in untraditional ways.
The truth is that “BigLaw” can be a very harsh environment, even when we knew what we were getting into. As an April 12, 2021 article about the industry in Business Insider noted, “[a]ny semblance of separation between work and personal life has been obliterated,” made worse by the boom of work in the COVID-19 era. Per the BI piece,
“The hardest part about this job isn’t necessarily the long hours. It’s the unpredictability of the long hours. What looked like a free weekend or free night can quickly turn into an all-nighter. You quarantine for two weeks so you can see your parents, and, as much notice as you give, as much as you prepare for it, the realities of what you’re being paid for is that that can blow up at any moment.”
Pre-pandemic, that unpredictability was there but the current landscape has only added to the expectation of availability at all hours. So it comes as no surprise, then, that I have received many more emails about leaving the law in the last twelve months than I have for the few years preceding it.
Hopefully this page provides some guidance, comfort and help. Please do feel free to use the contact form and reach out if you have questions that it does not answer.
LAST UPDATED: May 9, 2022
Life After Law: What to Do When You Don’t Want to be a Lawyer Anymore
But the series wasn’t enough for my resources, because while case studies are helpful most of us need something more constructive. Personally, before I quit my job as a lawyer I focused on checklists and preparedness — stuff that helped me feel a bit safer in my decision to turn my back on being an attorney.
Preparing took the form of reading books and articles from lawyers-turned-whatevers, but more importantly to focus on understanding what my fears were and how to face them without letting them control me.
The Best Questions to Ask when Facing Fear and Changing Careers
These are a great starting point to make a career shift, but also help in mapping out some of the boundaries or consequences of that choice.
1. The most important one: why are you leaving your career as a lawyer?
Before choosing to leave the law, it’s important to sit down and make two lists: a list of what it is that dissatisfies you with your current job, and a list of what you enjoy. The “I hate it” list may be long, and it may be very easy to write; many a disgruntled lawyer has no problem providing a litany of things that they dislike about their profession. But for some, doing this exercise may spotlight ways that they can still work within their profession’s limits, but in a more appealing way.
For example, in the age of COVID, office work is not the default everywhere. If ‘commute time’ or ‘dressing up for work’ is on that list, perhaps a remote position may fix that problem?
If the billable hours are too much to handle, would a position as a general counsel / in house work satisfy you instead?
For some, the issue may truly be the nature of the work itself. Not everyone will fall into this category. So the first thing I recommend is to truly, really take stock of what you dislike.
- What scares you most about changing careers?
- What do you gain the most by making this shift? This can be personality-based or lifestyle, or more.
Then, move onto what you like. If you feel convinced that you do not want to be a lawyer anymore, turn to your “likes” list. This will give you a thorough map for what you need to look for as you move into a new career or job, and makes the process less overwhelming.
2. Is there an emerging field of law that would work instead, and help you feel like you’re working on something exciting and different?
With both the rise of remote work and actual “legal nomads” (as opposed to me, who quit law practice to focus on the “nomadic” part), there are some shake ups in the legal industry. Opportunities to work as a lawyer in unconventional ways are increasing daily.
There are also new opportunities to work in emerging fields of law that did not exist when I was in practice or in law school. Fields like:
- Blockchain and cryptocurrency laws & regulations, whether related to taxation or otherwise.
- Cannabis laws, especially here in Canada where it has been legalized. Many jurisdictions are also decriminalizing and/or increasing access for medical cannabis.
- Geomatics and other spatially-referenced or location information, like LIDAR, drone use, and more. One of my favourite courses was international air and space law, something I would interested to go back and study now with the current landscape.
- Advertising and technology law, which includes false advertising, gaming, apps, and intellectual property. This was the area of law I practised in during my last years, and it was really interesting. Likely even more so now with the widespread use of new technologies.
- Medical law and ethics, especially as the pandemic continues.
These areas may not interest you, but for those who aren’t fully ready to leave the law they may provide a lateral move that keeps you excited to learn each day. If that’s the case, perhaps it’s worth exploring first.
A resource to help you figure out what this sweet spot may be is Design your Delta, a site that offers some brainstorming help via the existing “Delta Model”. The Delta Model goes through three areas that can be helpful to examine for lawyers seeking change: practice area, people, and process itself. You can read more about their model here. I have not engaged in their toolkit/process myself, as I am now very far away from the practice of law, but others I’ve recommended it to have found it helpful. (I have no affiliation at all with the Delta site, for clarity!)
3. What is your worst case scenario after you quit your job as a lawyer?
When readers who aren’t lawyers write to ask me about career change and fear, I often go back to this series of questions about risk assessment. Once you’ve got a handle on worst case scenarios, your fears eclipse a lot less of your heart and mind.
To get to your worst case scenario strategy, you need to sit down and think though some some tough fact patterns to get to the heart of your career change.
- What’s the worst case scenario for you if things go pear-shaped, for your life or emotional state?
- And (this is important!) what skills do you have to mitigate that worst case from happening?
I’m not of the “find your passion and take the leap” school of thought, despite my trajectory from BigLaw. While it may look like I just leapt into the unknown and said fuck it to the man, what actually happened is that I saved up to take a sabbatical because of a love of travel. During that trip, this website took off, I got offers for freelance writing, and a new career began to take shape. I did some risk assessment first, of the kind I am advocating here, and it allowed me the kind of mental space and freedom to make ‘next step’ decisions based from a place of calm analysis and not unprepared panic.
In an April 2021 piece called, Dream Jobs Are a Myth, and More Wisdom From ‘An Ordinary Age’, Rainsford Stauffer writes about the pressure to find one’s purpose. The piece is in Teen Vogue, so it’s geared at a younger audience, but this paragraph stood out:
[I]t feels backward to define ourselves by what we do anymore, as if job titles are status symbols and dream jobs don’t incite their own version of turmoil: What if everyone else knows their dream job, their calling, their purpose, and you don’t? What if you end up unable to get a job in your chosen field, or get your dream job and realize it’s not at all what you want? When these notions get encouraged in young adults, it feels like undercutting more realistic expectations around what work is, and how it feels. Maybe if so many of us weren’t only focused on defining ourselves by dream jobs, it would give us freedom to reimagine our meaning, purpose, and what matters to us in other facets of our lives.
As technology has changed, as more and more work moves online, finding work as a digital nomad or remote worker becomes more feasible. Is there any shame in leveraging skills toward a n0n-dream job, if that allows you the flexibility to build a life you want? I don’t think so. BigLaw’s ruthless hours and punishing schedule are part of why it private firms remain a difficult structure to ever change your life in the ways you want. But in 2021, there is a lot of room for creative legal work, or non-legal work, that isn’t a “total dream” in terms of day-to-day but does give some financial comfort and a much less restrictive schedule.
Cal Newport summarizes this conundrum of ‘dream jobs’ well in his The Passion Trap essay. A video version of Cal Newport’s essay below, for those who prefer it:
4. What can you become more of an expert at doing? What do you want to become more of an expert at doing?
Figure out what you could happily invest more time in learning how to do better. This is a great “brain dump” kind of exercise to truly examine what kinds of skills become stale when you contemplate deepening them.
As a travel writer, I did for work what most people do for vacation. This left me with a very different relationship to travel, but overall working on the writing skills, editing, photography, and public speaking did not curdle the joys of travel. It meant I needed to rethink how to relax, but travel remained a joy for me.
Is the thing you love something you want to get better at enough to flip it into a career? Or are there skills you have that you can deepen, broaden, become additionally certified in that you can use to change your law career into something different. Had I decided to focus primarily on writing without the travel, I could have become a freelance writer, fiction or otherwise. But the thought of becoming more of an expert on writing itself did not sit well; ultimately I opted for the area that working on my skills ad nauseam didn’t make me, well, nauseous.
Another way to approach this question is to do a wholesale “life audit”, to brainstorm the values and goals you have and how they align with both your dreams and the timeline that you hope to attain them. The life audit process lets you dream “mondo beyondo” dreams (all the things you might not have put to paper prior), then helps you reorganize them alongside your values and your life plans so that patterns can emerge.
I’ve found that getting all of these thoughts “out” and on paper (or post-it notes, as the process below suggests) truly helps lift a weight off. Doing so also let me be more creative (skydiving instructor? really?) and detach from the expectations of others as I thought through my own trajectory.
So what is a life audit? Author Ximena Vengoechea describes at as:
An exercise in self-reflection that helps you clear the cobwebs of noisy, external goals and current distractions, and revisit or uncover the real themes & core values that drive & inspire you. Also known as: spring-cleaning for the soul.
Ximena sets out step by step instructions for a life audit here, which will require at least 100 post it notes, a few hours of your time, and a dedication to your imagination.
5. What skill level do you need to be valuable enough for the bargaining power you want?
Ok, you’ve got expertise down pat. Now you need to figure out how good you would need to get at those things in order to leverage them to build the life you want to build.
For me, this meant working for myself, not going into an office, and being able to eat as much street food as possible.
In a piece about law practice in 2019, Mark Cohen interviewed a 1L who noted, “I regard law as a skill. I plan to leverage my legal training and meld it with my passion for business, technology, and policy. For me, law is not about practice.”
What skills can you leverage too?
6. What experts can help you grow those skillsets and aggregate more leverage? What professional support is available to get you there?
In today’s digital world, access to experts and their knowledge has never been easier. Who can you engage with to double down on your skills? Who can provide a snapshot of their own path to better inform you own? This includes professionals within the emerging legal fields I highlighted above. The more info gathering you can do on a one-to-one level, the more you will be to make an informed decision.
Approaching people in a quiet way – not “here are some times for a call” but rather “I’d be grateful if you could spend a few minutes of your time helping me understand your trajectory” – goes a long way toward answering your questions.
7. How can you ‘fall back’ on your worst case scenario in a graceful way?
For me, the worst case of working in the law, even if not as an associate again, was still a much better case than many. Think about what happens if your shift in careers does not work out. Is the ‘worst case’ you’ve established something you can’t see yourself doing at all? If so, you need to reframe things and figure out a better, more palatable means of returning to some form of stability before you set out. It goes a long way toward grounding you in confidence before you take that leap and leave the law.
The Paint Drop Method: A Way to Figure Out What to Do After Leaving Law
My friend Taylor Pearson wrote a post in April 2019 about how people can figure out what they should do with their lives. Even if went through that process to become a lawyer, you’re on this page because you may want a change. Among his advice is to keep asking yourself important questions, such as “what do you do well?” and “what do you find interesting?” while seeking a Venn-diagram overlap between the two and the very important question of “what will people pay for?”
To do so, he focuses primarily on skillset, because it is your unusual knowledge that will set you apart in today’s world. Taking a rare skill and combining it with a creative application is far more important than simply fitting into an existing mold.
I referred to this as the sweet spot between your wants, your skills, and the pain points out there that need to be solved.
What is valuable today is not learning how to be normal or common, but the opposite: developing a unique, uncommon skill set that is in high demand. The internet has massively broadened the possible space of careers by allowing you to scale almost any niche obsession or interest. The fundamental property of the internet is that it connects every human on the planet to every other.
Check out his full piece here to try the Paint Drop Method for yourself.
Resources: Books and Articles to Support a Career Change
Books About Alternative Careers for Lawyers
- Life After Law: Finding Work You Love with the J.D. You Have, by Liz Brown (2013). Book summary: the book” provides specific, realistic, and honest advice on alternative careers for lawyers. Unlike generic career guides, Life After Law shows lawyers how to reframe their legal experience to their competitive advantage, no matter how long they have been in or out of practice, to find work they truly love.”
- The Unhappy Lawyer: A Roadmap to Finding Meaningful Work Outside of the Law, by Monica Parker (2008). Book Summary: “The Unhappy Lawyer will help you uncover exciting alternative careers with a unique step-by-step program that will make you feel like you have your very own career coach. With chapters containing real letters from lawyers who are desperate to leave the practice of law, tales from lawyers who have shut the door on their legal careers, and powerful exercises.”
- Leaving Law: How Other’s Did It and You Can Too, by Adele Barlow (2015. Note, I worked with Adele at Escape the City). Book Summary: “This is the ultimate companion for lawyers who want to escape their profession but are sceptical about career counsellors. It is based on years of experience helping hundreds of confused lawyers at Escape the City, a community of motivated corporate professionals who want to do something different with their careers.”
- The Official Guide to Legal Specialties (Career Guides), by the National Association of Law Placement (2008). Book Summary: “An inside look at what it’s like to practice law in 30 major specialty areas, including appellate practice, entertainment, immigration, international, tax, and telecommunications. This book gives you the insights and expertise of top practitioners-the issues they tackle every day, the people and clients they work with, what they find rewarding about their work, and what classes or work experience you need to follow in their footsteps.”
- 24 Hours with 24 Lawyers: Profiles of Traditional and Non-Traditional Careers, by Jasper Kim (2011). Book Summary: “This book gives you a unique “all-access pass” into the real-world, real-time personal and professional lives of twenty-four law school graduates. These working professionals each present you with a “profile” chronicling a typical twenty-four-hour day in their traditional and non-traditional careers.”
- What Color Is Your Parachute? A Practical Manual for Job-Hunters and Career-Changers, by Richard N. Bolles (2017) Newly updated; Included in this section instead of above as this is the world’s most popular job-search book.
- The Creative Lawyer: A Practical Guide to Authentic Professional Satisfaction Paperback, by Michael F. Melcher (2007). Book Summary: “Starting with self examination, readers will be able to analyze their personal values and then create their own personal fulfillment plan. Create a step-by-step plan for life and career that will get you back on track with your personal definition of happiness with this important book.”
- The new ‘What Can You Do with a Law Degree?’ book, by Larry Richard (2012). Note: more expensive textbook pricing for this book. Book Summary: “This book contains career exercises, practical career-finding techniques, and a compendium of 800+ ways to use your law degree inside, outside or around the law.”
- Lawyer, Interrupted: Successfully Transitioning from the Practice of Law–and Back Again (2015), by Amy Impellizzeri. A good read for both the practical and the ethical considerations of leaving the law. What I like about this book is that it doesn’t only address people leaving because they want to, but also those practitioners who have to leave for life reasons, for example leaves of absence, taking care of family, retirement, and more. A useful book that covers a wide variety of circumstances.
- Given the rates of addiction and depression in the law (see Vice Mag’s anonymous piece here), I wanted to also include Brian Cuban’s The Addicted Lawyer.
Books About Career Change and Finding Creativity
- The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks & Win Your Inner Creative Battles, by Steven Pressfield. I’ve found creativity and fear are two sides of a very similar, shiny coin. This book helps you get more comfortable with that gnawing fear of impending change, because (as Pressfield argues) that fear is actually a very good sign — it tells us what comes next. The more scared we are of what we are excited about work-wise, the more we need to give it a shot. Instead of being held back by that deep, powerful resistance, Pressfield tells us to face it head on.
- The ONE Thing: The Surprisingly Simple Truth Behind Extraordinary Results, by Gary Keller and Jay Papasan. I’m including this one because lawyers have a good, trained tendency to focus on all of the aggregate problems or obstacles – it’s what we’re paid to do, after all. But in times of change, you need to reframe with narrower focus so as not to drown yourself in anxiety. The premise is simple: in a world with dizzying amounts of options and distractions, those who can focus will achieve meaning and depth that is unparalleled.
- Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life, by Bill Burnett and Dave Evans. The premise of the book can be boiled down to: when we get mired in problems that seem unsolvable, we need to reframe our relationship to them and try again. The book gives you tools to do that, and ways to craft a life that is fulfilling and meaningful regardless of our myriad backgrounds. While personal mindset matters most, the I found the book interesting at providing practical ways to rethink big problems like “what is the life I want to lead?”
- Take the Leap: Change Your Career, Change Your Life, by Sara Bliss. Case studies of people who have made unconventional career changes, transforming their lives in the process. They aren’t all lawyers – there is, however, one lawyer who went from billable hours to surf instruction – but the interviews are interesting and the wisdom inspiring from entrepreneurs, writers, artist, athletes, and more.
- Pivot: The Only Move is the One You Make Next, by Jenny Blake. This book is — as the title would suggest — all about the pivot, a startup term that can also apply to changing our lives. Blake, a public speaker and career coach, aggregates her advice about taking small steps to move in new directions and modify goals and careers in the process. Actionable and interesting.
- How to Be Everything, by Emilie Wapnick. Having a lot of different interests, projects and curiosities is something I was told “makes you an all-around gymnast – not a gold medal winner. Wapnick, who studied law at McGill University, argues that the narrowed experience theory is an outdated one. Instead, she urges people with many creative pursuits (multipotentialites, in her words) to leverage that diversity and passion as their biggest strength. The book teaches you how to build a life that you love, not because you ‘follow your passion’ but because you come into who you really are – which allows you to find meaning in whatever work you do.
- For a bit of spirituality braided in, see Design the Life You Love: A Step-by-Step Guide to Building a Meaningful Future, by Ayse Birsel. It’s an interactive journal – which may not appeal to all of my readers! But if doodling and listicles help you think stronger, this may be a good start for getting a better handle on changes you want to me.
- Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Elizabeth Gilbert. Some may argue that this book belongs elsewhere but I firmly believe that entrepreneurs and changemakers need to have a strong and brave creative streak, and this book speaks directly to creative pursuits in a linear world.
- Seth Godin’s Linchpin, about making yourself indispensable in creating new businesses and products, and Purple Cow, about transforming your business to make it remarkable, are both highly recommended. From Linchpin: “Your art is what you do when no one can tell you exactly how to do it. Your art is the act of taking personal responsibility, challenging the status quo, and changing people.”
Articles About Fear and Resilience
- Tim Ferriss’ Fear Setting exercises, with good questions to ask before undertaking decisions you’re afraid of. Bonus: the interview is with Hans Keeling, a former lawyer.
- Strategies for Overcoming Fears of Change and Failing FindLaw (This is an excerpt Career Change: Everything You Need to Know to Meet New Challenges and Take Control of Your Career, by David P. Helfand)
- How can I face my fear of making a career change? A list of questions relating to fear.
- Five Science-Backed Strategies to Build Resilience. 12 of resilience practices (squeezed into five categories), which can help you confront life changes more skillfully. Building resilience through mindfulness and habits is an excellent backstop to career transition, as it allows you to act from certain place, one less clouded by fear.
(For those not seeking a change at the moment, check out Associate Mind’s long list of online resources for new lawyers, from books to articles and much more, as well as Hastings College of Law’s New Models of Legal Practice publication.)
Resources and Articles: Jobs for Lawyers Leaving the Law
There are also a few other sites around the web that provide resources for lawyers seeking a career change:
- Georgetown Law’s alternative careers page.
- The Canadian Bar Association’s alternative careers page.
- ABA for Students’ alternative career paths.
- Life After Law’s job board.
- Non-Lawyer Jobs for Lawyers from Santa Clara Law School.
- 60 Alternative Jobs to Being a Lawyer from Law Crossing UK.
- Also from a UK perspective, All About Law’s alternative career’s page here.
- The American Bar Association’s (ABA) advice for tackling an alternative career, as well as their career center’s 2017 video about career changes and alternative tracks for lawyers.
- The ABA also has a landing page for alternative careers for lawyers, here.
- University of Toledo’s list of resources for nontraditional law careers options.
- Loyola University School of Law’s alternative law careers resources page (several resources in here).
- Life After Law: What to Do When You Don’t Want to Be a Lawyer Anymore, by fellow McGill grad Devo Ritter.
- Work-as-An-Attorney-from-Home job suggestions from an American perspective.
- National Associates for Law Placement has a few PDFs of note, including on emerging legal jobs. The others are here.
- Marc Luber’s JD Careers Out There site has an alternative careers for lawyers page with some of the obstacles that attorneys may feel hamper them from taking the leak.
- “Alternative Uses for Your Law Degree” – article from the Missouri Bar Association.
- Escape the City’s job listings board for many alternative careers that don’t involve a fixed location.
- Get Educated has an alternative careers page with salary listings, focusing on high-paying alternatives (America-focus).
- For Canadians, careers at the Department of Justice, if opting out of private practice is the main concern.
- Another Canadian perspective: Simon Rollat’s piece about alternative paths in the Canadian system. Simon runs DALA, an alternative careers group at my alma mater, McGill University. The piece also quotes from Dean Robert Leckey (who was in my year at McGill) about a non-traditional path.
- Pepperdine’s alternative jobs for law school graduates page, here.
- And from a different perspective: someone who opted to become a lawyer at later in life.
- For those who want to make a lateral move to a non-firm environment, Corporate Legal Operations Consortium (CLOC)’s
- job board includes a lot of general counsel work.
Case Studies from Former Lawyers
Before I quit my job as a lawyer, I found it really helpful to read through case studies and details from former lawyers. This both bolstered my courage, but also showed me how many others have taken the leap and landed on their feet. It’s a daunting prospect in a career that tells you that lock step salaries and billing units are the absolute norm. It’s a lot harder to think of something different when you’re exhausted and everyone else is keeping their eye on the prize they want: partnership. But making partner isn’t for everyone. It wasn’t for me, and it wasn’t for the people below. Hopefully these former lawyers give you more encouragement and steps to think a little differently about your life and what it can hold.
- I wrote a piece in 2015 on Redbook about why I quit my job to travel, and what to think about if you are considering doing the same.
- Simply Sweet Justice has a long, loooong list of lawyers who are now bakers here. Seriously, there are a LOT of lawyers who became bakers.
- Above the Law’s Alternative Careers page.
- New York Times recently featured Rob Friedman, former lawyer who became a baseball pitching “whisperer” and adviser. “People have come up to me to get my autograph,” Friedman said. “I’m like, what the hell is that? I’m a freaking lawyer!”
Thrillable Hours: My Case Studies from Life After Law
I hope this series is helpful. I know I have learned a lot from the interviewees, and look forward to continuing to interview and highlight these smart and interesting people.